Self-reliance and self-respect are the necessary keys most unhappy women need to grasp the concept of, while taking full responsibility and control over their own lives.
Self-reliance doesn’t mean being alone and carrying the weight of the world on your shoulders. It’s about being responsible for your life and taking the lead when it comes to planning, making decisions and taking the initiative to make certain things get done in a manner that is in your best interest.
It means not clinging to people and making life harder for others than it already is. For the most part it is an attitude, and it’s one that will serve you well no matter the circumstances in which you find yourself.
You probably know someone who lives life on their own terms, with an independent attitude and a determination to take care of their own needs, they are accountable for themselves. The shift to taking responsibility for our lives is vital to transforming your life into one of Divine Feminine self-reliance.
No matter what challenges we face we must learn to save ourselves. Do not wait for someone else to come along (the proverbial white knight). Do not buy into the old story that someone else can take better care of you than you can. This is a false and destructive dream. Don’t wait for someone else to appreciate you, love you, acknowledge you or save you. This mindset will condemn you to search for the person who will protect you and care for you and ultimately control you.
You are a wise soul with all the wisdom and strength you needed to come to earth for your personal growth, or you wouldn’t be here yet. Your divine feminine energy, power and intelligence to do so, is your wise souls gift to yourself and the planet.
Nothing destroys the individuality of a woman as much as the failure to be self-reliant. Every woman has a mysterious force within her, an ancient wisdom that is always whispering. She has a divine holy force that has been contained and restricted for millennia but is ready to rise again.
From the dawn of pre-history, women were perceived as holy and sacred. They were powerful figures full of strength, wisdom and leadership. Women were the keepers of the human race from which all life flowed.
To be these things you have to be self-reliant and prepared for feasts and famines and everything in-between. Modern life is making us vulnerable, dependent, needy and lazy.
In today’s chaotic and uncertain world we need the fortitude and skills to stand strong and become the leader that our family and our future needs to be self-reliant and prepared for any unforeseen situation.
Self-Reliance In An Uncertain World, is volume 4 in the series of the Divine Feminine Handbooks, it will give you a heads up on many areas of your life where you can develop the skills to be self-reliant:
• Growing your own food
• Leaning how to make healthy life sustaining fermented sourdough bread
• Getting your finances in order
• Preparing for emergencies
• and more!
Self-Reliance In An Uncertain World, by Marilyn Pabon, is now available to order on Amazon, Barnes and Noble and Balboa Press.